It
is the ability of fear to foresee that set the institution of planning in human
life.
Have you seen a race of
prey and predator? It is interesting to note that most of the times prey win despite
their low capability compared to their predator. The reason is the survival
mechanism given to them by nature, fear. Fear starts neurobiological chain
reaction in the body which releases the chemicals that cause a racing heart,
fast breathing, energized muscles and many other things that make them capable
to exceed their normal performance. In other words, fear switches the mind of
prey from unconscious to conscious state while predator remain in its normal
unconscious state of autopilot and could not compete with prey because predator
is doing its daily duty. But when predator is really hungry; its survival
mechanism is also turned on as a result of potential threat on its own
survival.
Fear is not objective
reality but perception of one's mind. It is triggered by a possible threat and toggles
the mind from autopilot mode to conscious state to take exceptional emergency
decisions and act accordingly.
I heard a story about a
man who went to learn consciousness from a Sufi saint. The saint had a coconut
tree in his garden. He asked the man “if you really want to learn the way of
attaining consciousness then climb the tree or leave for your home.” The man
thought him mad but had no options. He travelled a lot to find him. As he was a
victim of acrophobia, a condition in which a person dreads height, he could not
climb but he had one greater fear; fear of calling escaper owing to his large
ego which drove him to take a chance. As
soon as the man reached height of 10 feet above the ground, the saint started
shouting “Be brave for few more moments and you’ll succeed” because he saw the
shadow of acrophobia overpowering him. He closed his eyes and continued to
climb until reached the top. After reaching the top, he began to climb down but
when he arrived at the height of 10 feet from the ground, the saint again
started shouting “Be careful”. He finally approached the ground and with tint
of anger on his face hurried towards the bench where the saint was relaxing
lying down. He yelled at the saint “you ruthless psycho at the height of 10
feet you had much concerns and when I was on the top you were carelessly lying on
the bench.” The saint replied calmly “When I first reminded you the shifting
from unconscious to conscious was going on and quitting at that stage would
have stopped the process. It was my duty to help you attain consciousness. When
I warned second time I saw the shifting of mind again initiated as a result of
your overconfidence on initial success. At the top you were already in the
conscious state due to survival mechanism of fear gifted by nature to
everyone.”
Fear is the secret to
consciousness. The first experience of consciousness might have occurred in the
moments of fear (who knows?). In fact, all the great things human achieved are
driven out of fear. The first greatest discovery was fire to protect from
deadly wild animals, so was the weapons made out of stones during Stone Age. Huge
risk and massive loss of lives might compel the primitive humans to shift to
agriculture instead of hunting for their need of food. The first shelter might
have made as a preventive measure from potential dangers and still buildings
are made as protective measures. It would not be hyperbolic to say that fear is
the cause of human advancement. In fact, fear is the nature’s way of teaching. The
word ‘fear’ is actually derived from Proto-Indo-European ‘per-’ which
means ‘to attempt, try, research, risk.’
Fear is a state of mind
which calls upon the faculty of imagination to impose its long lasting
impression. Probably, the faculty of imagination might have used first time
during the mind state of fear. In fact, fear is itself a form of imagination
which draws the mind on extremes of negative situation exactly in the same
manner in terms of exaggeration, variety and vividness of mental images. It is
found that centers of fear and imagination lie in the same region of brain called
amygdala.
Fear is a source of
creativity. The fact is acknowledged by famous filmmaker, Shekhar Kapur, who
portrayed the story of the great Queen Elizabeth on cellulite screen. According
to him, panic is the great access for creativity. It is the only way of get rid
of one’s mind and harness the truth which lies somewhere in the Universe beyond
mind. He said “In the state of panic, you’re praying to the Universe, because
you’re praying you’re going to access creativity which comes from outside yourself
from the Universe.” Here, getting rid of one’s mind means coming out of
autopilot mode having prewritten answers which have limited scope in the
situation that is not going to lead anywhere in significant way. The only
solution is coming up with new answers which need consciousness. Nature set up
a system in every being for this kind of situation to switch the mind from
unconscious autopilot mode to conscious thinking mode, called fear. The
switching takes time. It requires courage and patience to stand for those
moments. If one looses, the switching stops and flight response is triggered. On
the other side, consciousness is invoked and fight response is activated.
The ideology of Karen
Thompson Walker, author of the bestseller “The Age of Miracles,” is also in consistent
with the idea of fear as spring of creativity. She sees fear as unintentional
story telling which characters are we, ourselves. She states that in similar to
storytelling, fear has also beginning, middle and end. It comprises all the elements
of story such as imagination, suspense and mental time travelling.
What is fiery about
fear? Ironically, the known and the unknown. It is the known experiences
whether self or shared as well as the enormous possibilities of unknown which
onsets the reactions of fear in an individual. Fear of known experiences is
conditioned state of mind.
Mark Barad, a scientist
of UCLA, conducted a conditioning experiment on rats in which an electric shock
was applied to metal floor of rats’ cage along with a feeble noise. It did not
take long for the rats to brace themselves for the shocks as soon as they heard
the noise. It is because the noise is associated with electric shock deep in
their unconscious mind. In the language of neurologist, it is said that their
amygdalas paired the noise with the shock, and the noise created a fear
response. Further experiments were done on the same rats. This time, rats were
exposed to same feeble noise but without electric shock. Habitual hearing of
noise without the shock made the rats fearless once again. Similar experiment
was done on a little child, Albert, who had no fear of laboratory's test
animals to induce fear of white rats in him by John Watson, an American
psychologist. Whether it is psychology or neurology, one thing is certain that
fear is a mind state and is prone to conditioning.
Fear is nothing but a
state of mind. Like any mind state, it could be changed. Familiarity is the key
to lock the hazardous effect of fear. Albert Bandura ranked the fourth
most-frequently cited psychologist, behind B. F. Skinner, Sigmund
Freud, and Jean Piaget, in a survey conducted in 2002 among the 100 most
eminent psychologist of the 20th century. He believes taking small
steps of exposure to get familiar with the object of fear would cure one from
that particular fear. He kept snake in a room and to take out the fear of
snakes from subjects. He asks the subject “there is a beautiful snake inside
the room. Let’s walk in to see it.” The subject freaks out but Bandura opens
the door slightly and shows the snake to the subject through a mirror and makes
him comfortable of the sight. He, then, opens the door widely and inspires the
subject to peep inside to have glimpses of snake. He, further, arranges the
sight from a distance of five feet and slowly cutting the distances to nearly
one foot. Now, he takes out gloves from the drawer beside and wears them along
with the subject to touch the snake finally. The very moment the subject
touches the snake, the fear vanishes. He called the process of conditioning for
fear extinction as guided mastery. The subject not only gets rid of fear of
snake but his anxiety also reduces in other aspect of life. He gains a new
confidence, gets tougher and become more resilient to failure in his life.
Bandura called this confidence, self-efficacy and defines it as one’s belief in
one’s ability to succeed in specific situations. One’s sense of self-efficacy
can play a major role in how one approaches goals, tasks and challenges.
The picture of fear is
likely to turn into reality when the emotion of belief is blended in the brew
of negative fantasy. In the words of Napoleon Hill “If it is true that all
thought has a tendency to clothe itself in its physical equivalents (and this
is true, beyond any reasonable room for doubt), it is equally true that thought
impulses of fear and poverty cannot be translated into terms of courage and
financial gain.”
Nature has endowed man
with absolute control over one thing and that is thought. This fact, coupled
with the additional fact that everything which human creates starts in the form
of thoughts, lead one very near to the principle by which fear may be mastered.
On the other hand, indecision crystallizes fear and there is some kind of
action for any form of fear. Determine your cause of fear and associated
action. Take action promptly. Be decisive.
Fear is not an
objective reality but a state of mind. A state of mind is something one assumes.
Like any mind state, it is subject to control and direction. There are many
forms of fear seen by human’s psyche. The prominent one that encountered in the
journey of success are fear of poverty, fear of criticism, fear of ill health,
fear of loss of love, fear of age, fear of death, fear of lack of ability etc.
In fact, these are not fears but lame excuses for inaction. It is an old
proverb that when there is a will; there is a way. In case of fear, one needs
to be brave for few more minutes and one succeeds. It is said that success
begins after overcoming fear.
Let me tell you some
stories that happened in real time, surpassed these lame excuses and licked the
taste of success. As far as excuses are
concerned all great companies whether Microsoft or Apple were started in
garages only with great idea. No one in the history was ever praised by cent
per cent; Jesus was crucified and Socrates was poisoned. David Copperfield was penned after the
tragedy faced by Charles Dickens in his first love. Socrates once told
that one should indulge in love; if accepted, one will be on higher planes of
consciousness through love and if rejected then also he will be on higher
planes but through philosophy. Excuses of young age could be countered by
citing examples of Bill Gates and Steve Jobs and old ages by Colonel Sanders
who founded KFC at the age of 65. No one is ever in the history is blessed with
immortality. So, mourn over inevitable is not justifiable by any means. Walt
Disney, Albert Einstein, Thomas Alva Edison and many others were initially
declined for their inability.
Dhirubhai Ambani, when he was only 16, for a livelihood, started his
career as a dispatch clerk with the A. Besse &
Co. before becoming the distributor for Shell
Products. He was later promoted as a manager in an oil filling station at the
port of Aden. Dhirubhai felt tempted to speculate but had no money for
that and was still raw for trading. To learn the tricks of the trade he offered
to work free for a Gujarati trading firm. There he learnt accounting, book
keeping, preparing shipping papers and documents, and dealing with banks and
insurance companies. skills that would come handy when he launched himself into
trading about a decade afterwards in Bombay. "More than anything else I
learnt that nothing big can ever be achieved without money, influence and power
and I also learnt that money, influence and power alone cannot achieve anything
in life, big or small, without a certain soft, delicate, sensitive,
understanding human touch in all one's deeds and words." Dhirubhai was now
26 years,
A young boy
born in small district of India lost his father at age of one. His family
financial position was very tight. He had to cross a river to reach school for
study. There were times when he had no penny to pay for boat. He swam lifting
his books above the water. He, later, became the second elected Prime Minister of
Republic of India. He was Lal Bahadur Shastri.
John Forbes Nash, Jr., an American mathematician, shared the 1994 Nobel
Memorial Prize in Economic Sciences with game theorists Reinhard Selten and John
Harsanyi. He suffered from paranoid
schizophrenia in which a person usually talk with
hallucinated characters that did not exist in real life. Nearly 10 years of his
life was
spent in mental asylum where he was administered insulin
shock therapy along with antipsychotic medications.
His story was captured on silver screen in Hollywood movie, ‘A Beautiful Mind.’
Stephen
Hawking, an English theoretical physicist
considered the most talent after Einstein. He was not initially successful
academically. With
time, he began to show considerable aptitude for scientific subjects, and
inspired by Tahta, decided to study mathematics at university. His
father advised him to study medicine, concerned that there were few jobs for
mathematics graduates. As it was not possible to read mathematics there at the
time, Hawking decided to study physics and chemistry. Despite his headmaster's
advice to wait till the next year, he was awarded a scholarship after taking
the examinations in March 1959. He was diagnosed of motor
neurone disease related to amyotrophic lateral
sclerosis (ALS) at 21 during
his first year as a doctoral student. At the time doctors gave him a life expectancy of two
years. The problems worsened he had difficulty walking without support, and his
speech was almost unintelligible. Now he is almost entirely paralyzed and
communicates through a speech generating device but still working with enthusiasm.
I’ve learned over the years that when one’s mind is made up, this diminishes fear; knowing what must be done does away fear.
~Rosa Parks
Physiologically speaking, stressors like fear stimulate the sympathetic nervous system's "fight or flight" response non-selectively, e.g. it's the same regardless of whether you're encountering an angry grizzly bear or a phobia. Maybe that's why it's so difficult for people to successfully confront their fears.
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